Self love is:

Being me.  Just. As. I. Am.  Having the courage to stand up for what I believe in because I believe in it - regardless of what another thinks of me for believing what I believe in. It's making a decision that I am no longer willing to change who I am for another person because who I am makes them uncomfortable with themselves. 

That I have a right to my opinions and that there are things I don't agree with; things I think are wrong, actions and behaviors I don't want to be in any way involved in and excuses I don't buy.  Not for a red hot minute.

Giving up the need to be "right" and accepting that I am not here to "tell" anyone else what to do with their life - I am here to lead by my shining example and the greatest testiment to the power of love, faith and trust is living it myself.  Out loud.

Saying no to the things that deserve a no and saying yes to the things that deserve a yes.   Without apology, regret or guilt.

Embracing the wonderful of my life - knowing it's wonderful because of the choices I made to let it be wonderful along the way.

Removing the word "HARD" from my vocabulary and letting it be easy.  As it most often is. As most things are when they come from the heart.

So yes, that's where I'm doing my rolling and basking today - on day 9 of DaniMonth.  In my own sunshine - and daringly, without sunscreen.